Why eloping is the best way to get married

Your wedding day is the start of one of the biggest adventures in your life. Why not celebrate it this way? Eloping is a truly unique way to celebrate your bond. Traditional weddings often come with a lot of added pressure from friends and family. We want to shift the focus back to what a wedding should be: A unique celebration of love. You and your partner promise to love each other, the most beautiful gift you can give to a person. 

What is an elopement?

An elopement is a modern alternative to traditional weddings. You and your partner (and maybe a small selection of friends or family) travel to a remote area to celebrate your wedding on your terms, quiet, intimate and completely free. 


In older days, couples would run away to form their bond in secret, often without anyone knowing. They would return as a married couple, often despite the wish of their families. Modern elopements, however, don’t need to be secretive. It’s all about creating a very special experience for a very special day. Many people don’t actually dream of a big white wedding and would rather hike with their partner, stroll along a beautiful beach, or explore a new culture. That’s what it’s all about. 

  • Your love is uniquely yours and so is your wedding.
    This day is for you and your partner. Celebrate your love your way.  

  • Create an experience that you truly want. 
    Your wedding day should be unforgettable. Free yourself from expectations.

  • Roam wild and free.
    Channel your inner adventurer. Discover new places and celebrate your bond in one of the most stunning places in the world. 

  • Celebrate your special day in harmony with your values.
    Does Mother nature play an important role in your life? Celebrate your love surrounded by majestic mountains or pristine beaches. We help you make your dream elopement come to life.

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The biggest myths about eloping

There are many misconceptions about elopements that people still believe. Let’s have a look at the most common myths and why they are absolutely not true.  

Myth #1: Eloping is selfish. 

A wedding is a ceremony of love, and honestly, it should be more about you than about your guests. There are many ways to argue that eloping is actually the opposite of selfish. Instead of expecting your friends and family to take some time off work, to pay for a night in a hotel and to get a fancy outfit to wear, you choose to share the important parts with them afterwards. Eloping is about celebrating love your way. 

Myth #2: An elopement has to be just the two of you. 

It can be if you want to. No matter if you like to keep it just the two of you or if you would like to share the experience with a small group of friends, an intimate wedding is perfect. It’s you and your loved ones in one of the most beautiful places in the world, experiencing the magic of love and connection together. 

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Myth #3: Elopements won’t need much planning. 

A well-planned elopement is key for a successful trip. You don’t want to stress about any uncertainties in a different country. An elopement requires a different sort of planning than a traditional wedding would but it still does. Luckily, you can get a helping hand: If you are unsure where to start, reach out and we are happy to help. 

Myth #4: A destination wedding is not as romantic as a traditional wedding. 

Imagine yourself in one of the most stunning spots in the world, looking deep into your partner’s eyes saying your vows. If that’s not romantic, we don’t know what is. Eloping allows you to choose a very special destination that feels close to your heart. Sharing this experience will be much more memorable than walking down the aisle of your local church! 

Myth #5: Elopements are lonely. 

You are going on a trip to a marvellous place with your favourite person in the world. That doesn’t sound lonely to us. And any experienced traveller knows that you can make friends wherever you go. Eloping is not lonely, it’s a conversation starter. 

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Why eloping?

Your wedding is all about you and your partner. Make the experience uniquely yours. Eloping allows you to choose your own adventure. Quit stress and third-party expectations. Instead, say ‘yes’ in one of the most epic places in the world. Still not convinced? Here are a few more reasons why eloping will give you an incredible experience: 

  • It’s intimate. You and your partner can choose who to share this special moment with. Not everyone wants to say their vows in front of a big crowd. Keep it special. 

  • It’s an experience. Your love is truly yours and so is your wedding. Choose a spot that speaks to your heart and plan a ceremony that you will love. 

  • It’s cheaper. Maybe it’s not the most important point but you can share a great experience with your partner while keeping it as cheap or expensive as you like. 

  • It’s all about love. Quit society’s expectations of what a wedding is supposed to be like. Make it a memorable experience that you and your partner will never forget.

  • It’s an adventure. Do you love activities? Make it an active wedding. An adventure wedding is a beautiful way to celebrate your unique connection with something you love. 

Ready to elope?

We think eloping is the best way to get married and we love to help you create the experience you want. Get in touch through the contact form and tell us about your thoughts. We can help you plan your perfect trip to celebrate your love and connection - uniquely yours. 

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